Anonymous asked: I am a 19 year old straight boy with a gf and want to become a slave what is the best way to go about this?
My advice is to first make contact with a support BDSM group, get involved in the online community via sites like fetlife.com and learn more about what being a slave can entail. Do some cyber or online play first and get a feel for what you like, what you want to experiment in and what you don’t like. Learn the etiquette and people before you dive in. It will help you out in the long run.
Anonymous asked: From one master to another: I need some advice. I have a new slave, a marine back from his final tour of Afghanistan a few months ago. He's a hunky treat AND he hasn't had the pleasure of a cock deep inside him. I just have one problem...he's VERY defiant. He refused to rim me and I once caught him calling me a "fag" behind my back. I tried spanking him, and he apologizes, but then he's back to his behavior. This has NEVER happened before. So do you have any ideas of what I could possibly do?
As always. Communicate. Talk to the guy and if he’s not going to shape up - he can ship out. Sure he is hunky and sexy, but if being up front and honest with him without the mask of a bdsm session to hide behind doesn’t work… it’s just not going to work out.
Anonymous asked: Hi Sir, gay sub lad here. Just wanted to say I enjoy your page very much, but also that I tend to agree with the last comment posted up. It's very cool you're willing to give up so much time (indeed, over half your page) to giving guys such thoughtful advice. I can't say I hope these guys are genuine, because their circumstances are horrifying and I would wish them on no-one, but I hope some fool is not getting off on wasting your time.
Thanks for the feedback. I’m very much of the mind that it is better to just give good advice. If someone is so weak that they get better orgasms from being told that their fantasy is horrific and how to get out of it rather than enjoy genuine *consensual* captions about submission play, then those guys probably need to take a good long look at themselves.
It only serves to make them look weak and kind of lame. And if the situations are genuine, then I’ve provided good advice.
I can’t imagine that writing a scenario like that only to have a Master recoil and say “get out of that sick relationship now!” can be particularly rewarding.
Anonymous asked: Hi, just want to say you might want to look out when it comes to some of the messages you've been receiving lately. Some of them seem to be fake and like someone (possibly the same person) is trying to get a rise out of you by asking about ridiculous scenarios. For example, the guy that claimed he was being forced feminized and now another guy who's claiming his parents gave him to a master. Beware internet trolls! Great you're giving practical advice but someone might be having fun with you.
Eh. I suspect the same, but it doesn’t change the benefit of practical advice. If someone gets their kicks that way, so be it. No skin of my nose because the advice is still good advice. Trust me, there have been some I just don’t even bother to respond to.
Anonymous asked: 21yr swimmer jock final part, so I am now more confused than ever, according to them I'm a natural as I don't have a gag reflex, so they wish to continue training me but my situation is, I'm meant to be straight with a girlfriend, who I didn't tell I spent last night sucking cock naked on my knees while getting called a dirty Faggot,which so turned me on and I don't know why, so what say I do now, I don't wanna break up but I can't suck guys off behind here back
Okay. First take a deep breath and relax.
You experimented with something you were curious about and you enjoyed it. That’s great. Does that mean you should dump your girlfriend and become a cock-loving faggot slave?
It’s clear to me that you do want to stay with your girlfriend. Politely decline the offer from your neighbours and say if things change with her maybe you’ll talk with them.
DO NOT LET THEM BULLY YOU. You’ve just done something that’s a big deal and they should be giving you space to process it. What they are doing is taking advantage of your confusion to get you in training. I strongly recommend not doing anything more with them and focusing time on your girlfriend.
As for the confusion, it’s just sex. We live in a society that elevates sex into something more than it is. Straight guys do experiment. Some do become occasional slaves. But they’re still straight.
Don’t sweat it. If you find it is causing you stress, seek out a counselling line and discuss your feelings with them. They are anonymous and it can help to talk about these things out loud.
Just remember - your relationship with your girlfriend is important to you and takes precedence. Serving your neighbours is never going to be a deep relationship.
There is nothing wrong with having tried serving and enjoying it. But don’t make the mistake of making it the center of your life. It’s only sex.