Anonymous said: Can't speak for all your readers but I'd love to send more than a headless pic but don't see how I can. I believe you when you say you won't share but as someone who talks a lot about trust and taking things slowly, how can you expect us to send pics like that to someone we don't really know beyond reading his blog? Also, even if you wouldn't share, stuff happens on the web and things can get hacked, stolen, etc. I doubt most amateur pics on Tumblr were meant to be so public when they were taken

This is an understandable conundrum. I make myself available for chat via a number of channels, and beyond that it’s up to the individual to decide how to contact me.

In regards to hacking and stealing - that’s not as common as you may think.

Ultimately I have made myself available for guys to contact me and discuss what they would be willing to do and communicate, beyond that - trust is a two way street. You need to trust me and I need to trust that you’ll be honest with me in return. I post my thoughts regularly here on this blog, I feel that you know more than enough to know that I can be trusted.

Beyond that there is little more I can do to make you feel at ease sending me pictures. I don’t judge you for being reticent and cautious. That’s a healthy attitude to take when dealing with strangers online. I’m just as cautious and of the guys who contact me only a very few have had me send them pictures in return - and it took some time before I was comfortable enough to share more of myself with them and vice versa.

All I can do is make it clear what I’m looking for, how to contact me and then it’s up to you to make the next move.

I don’t get sent enough pictures like this. I’m not interested in cocks, assholes and headless bodies, boys. I’d sooner see a man like this than naked. It’s the eyes that turn me on. The submission, the humiliation and admission.
I never share pictures that are sent to me without the slave expressly telling me I can. And even then I am usually reticent to do so.
Send me more of these, boys. Now.
domn8guys@gmail.com

I don’t get sent enough pictures like this. I’m not interested in cocks, assholes and headless bodies, boys. I’d sooner see a man like this than naked. It’s the eyes that turn me on. The submission, the humiliation and admission.

I never share pictures that are sent to me without the slave expressly telling me I can. And even then I am usually reticent to do so.

Send me more of these, boys. Now.

domn8guys@gmail.com

Anonymous said: 21yr swimmer jock here. As a couple they aren't very demanding of me and respect where I'm coming from and that I am confused, they said they don't mind it being a one time thing if I prefer, as I still have a girlfriend and wouldn't want to interfere, because they really want to see me naked. I just have to do as told for a night and if I'm comfortable with it then maybe do sexual things, do you have any ideas how I could serve them for a night, sexually and non sexually, thanks

Make them dinner. Clean the kitchen. Let them touch your body. If you’re feeling ready maybe let them teach you how to suck cock. I’d recommend though it might be best to just let them jerk off and cum on your face and body.

I wouldn’t recommend letting them fuck you. It would be a bit too intense. Just let the evening unfold naturally for you.

Anonymous said: Sir, 6 years ago when I was 20 this man who I never met convinced my parents that I was better off as his boywife and personal fucktoy. They agreed to marry me with him and move in with him. I am straight I hate my parents, I hate this man. I am 26 now and 1click I suck his cock, 2clicks I drop my pants he fucks me anywhere anytime even in the living room with my parents two feet away. Why am I being punished? I tried running away but they keep finding me. I want a wife and kids. I don't get it.

Okay. This does sound kind of an implausible situation, but not impossible.

My first statement is that this guy is an abuser, not a Master. My recommendation isn’t to just run away, it’s to seek aid to get away from these people. They have no legal control over you. You’re legally allowed to have nothing to do with them.

The first thing you need to do is contact a support group. Find a gay youth aid group or a women’s refuge. Yes I said women’s refuge - because they will have experience with dealing with abusive situations where someone is trying to escape them.

Just get out. They have no right to force you into the relationship and there is no law under the sun in the West at least that would allow such abuse to continue. But you will need allies to help you navigate your way out.

Don’t be ashamed to be honest with trusted people about what is happening. I can’t answer why it’s happening, but I can tell you that it’s not right and you are not to blame. This is on this guy and your parents.

My rule with submissive play is always that the sub must come willingly and without coercion from others.

If you hate this, then you need to leave and you will need people to help you get out. Find a youth aid group and get their help.

Anonymous said: Hi there. So I'm also a master. And I recently had a boy come to me for training on cam. but while he'll do whatever I want on cam and is willing to do tasks during the day, he won't send pictures as proof for fear I'll post them online and humiliate him, which I'd never do. It's making it hard for me to assign him tasks, because I can't be sure he did them. Any ideas for getting him past this hurdle or for tasks that don't require photographic proof? Thanks.

All I can say is build trust. He needs to feel comfortable with you and know that you won’t expose him.

What you need to do is decide how far you are willing to go without reciprocation from him. There are some guys out there who just want to cyber and keep promising but never deliver.

There are other guys who just are very shy. It’s a big deal, after all, and the risks are high. So it’s about figuring out how long you can wait and working on building genuine trust with him.

Anonymous said: It's the 21yr old swimmer jock here, I'm still confused about how I feel but I have a situation which I have created that I need help with. I talked with my Gay neighbors, older 40s couple about how I felt, I told him what I told you. They said I could become their house boi for a night and see how I like it, no sex but I would have to be naked the whole time apart from their dogs collar round my neck, call them sir when they can call me what they want, and do jobs while they watch, what do I do

Firstly, make sure this is something you want to do and that you are openly communicating with your neighbours. I normally wouldn’t recommend experimenting so close to home because if things don’t work out it could make your relationship with them awkward afterwards.

Secondly, be sure to keep the limits clear with them. Don’t let them pressure you into anything you’re not ready for. Again, this could all be just a curiosity for you and you’ll need someone who is respectful that you are only experimenting.

Also I’d recommend keeping yourself sober and clear headed through the experience. Your first commitment is to keep yourself safe. This is fantasy play, boy. Don’t let it take over your life.

Feel free to email me privately if you have questions.

domn8guys@gmail.com

Anonymous said: Purest nonsense. The desire for 'emotional support' and 'a relationship' is certainly not what defines a 'straight man.' 'Straight' very clearly means interested in the opposite sex for sex; no man who wants to have sex with another man is in any way 'straight.' He may be bisexual, but you are living in your own private Idaho in trying to state that such a man is 'straight.' I'm sorry your sexual fantasy is so tied to the idea of 'straight' slaves (LOL), but it is YOU who are naive and deluded.

Lol! Well obviously this is a fantasy blog. That’s kind of the point. BDSM *is* fantasy. It’s where people get to take control or give up control for much needed release.

Being straight is not as cut and dry as you may think. The hundreds of emails I get a week from straight guys who find this blog weirdly compelling (and let’s face it, you came here and spent enough time on the blog to feel the urge to reinforce your narrow perspective on “straight” via a message so obviously it has struck a nerve with you too) is proof that your opinion lacks accuracy.

I’ve been Domming for close on twenty years now. Enough to know the difference between a bi guy and a straight guy who likes to be dominated. And I can say with confidence that not only is there a difference, but it’s not just two boxes but a very complex and confusing spectrum.

My rule is and always has been that it’s the guy’s choice to define himself how he chooses. As a gay man I know a bit about sexuality. Being gay is not a choice, but whether we act on our sexuality or not is. When you’re working on coming out or not, you’re forced to look at your sexuality in a way most straight guys don’t have to. You think about things like “could I ever be sexually attracted to a woman?” You learn that there is a spectrum of “gay” before you even hit bisexual.

To claim that being straight is as simple as “only has sex with the opposite sex” is being naive. Sexuality just doesn’t work like that in reality.

Now *you* might never be sexually attracted to men. Even in a submissive BDSM situation. But that doesn’t mean all straight men feel the same. Because they don’t. With so many billions of straight males in the world, the statistics alone don’t support your assertion.

It also isn’t your place to tell another person what their sexuality is. That is a discovery they must make on their own. I don’t judge a guy who says he’s straight and comes to me wanting to be tied up and fucked with dildos; or who just wants some CMNM play without sexual contact… it’s all fantasy and BDSM. If he says he’s straight, then I will respect that.

If he only gets involved with guys in a BDSM context, it’s very implausible to claim he’s bi. At best he’s heteroflexible.

The fact of the matter is - people don’t fit easily into boxes. If there is anything my blog is trying to show it’s that sexuality isn’t as simplistic as that.

somemenarejustbetter:

More people should take their selfies on their knees.  I love seeing how happy they are to kneel

Agreed - although I usually prefer to see the face rather then their cocks or assholes. I find the look of submission considerably more arousing than a penis.

somemenarejustbetter:

More people should take their selfies on their knees.  I love seeing how happy they are to kneel

Agreed - although I usually prefer to see the face rather then their cocks or assholes. I find the look of submission considerably more arousing than a penis.

Nobody at the college knew that the four star players were sex slaves to a very persuasive gay man. When the weekend came he’d hire their straight asses and mouths out to visiting business associates, or have them stay over at his place to fuck each other while he taped them.

Come the end of their time at college all four slaves had a lot of money in trusts for them and a couple even remained on Master’s staff have found that they enjoyed the humiliation and use.

(Source: angryhole, via puphawaii)

Martin had come a long way in two months. Now the straight guy was passionately kissing his best friend, David, while fucking David’s ass.
He didn’t even stop when Master’s firm hand caressed the firm globes of his own ass as he pumped into his friend’s soft pussy. Or when the cool lubed fingers entered him.
When his Master entered him, filled him, he moaned into David’s mouth. This was where he was meant to be. Impaled on a superior gay man’s cock and performing for his Master’s enjoyment…

Martin had come a long way in two months. Now the straight guy was passionately kissing his best friend, David, while fucking David’s ass.

He didn’t even stop when Master’s firm hand caressed the firm globes of his own ass as he pumped into his friend’s soft pussy. Or when the cool lubed fingers entered him.

When his Master entered him, filled him, he moaned into David’s mouth. This was where he was meant to be. Impaled on a superior gay man’s cock and performing for his Master’s enjoyment…

(Source: enriqueexposed, via puphawaii)