Anonymous said: Hello Sir. I asked you a while ago if wearing pink jockstraps and thongs with stockings was normal part of training and you said no. I spoke with my master about my dislike and now I am to strip upon arriving to his house or my house and spray Victoria's Secret perfume all over my body and keep the stockings as I service him and take care of house chores. If he senses the smell fading he reapplies it all over my body again.... I want out!!!!!
Then stop seeing him.
This man is not a real Master, he’s a bully and has shown that he has zero respect for you.
First things first, confide in someone in your real life who you can trust. Tell them what has been happening and that you are wanting to get this guy out of your life. His power comes from your submission. He has no power if you decide to stop. But be sure to have someone who knows what is going on and can act to back you up.
Hopefully he will just leave you alone or resort to some bullying texts. But if he genuinely threatens to blackmail you, go to the police. Blackmail is illegal.
If you feel to scared to see the police, contact your local gay support group - like Rainbow Alliance etc. They can help advise you even if you aren’t gay. In fact I’d suggest going to them first and telling them as much as you are able to. The more you expose who this guy is, the easier it will be to pull out. Another option is to contact the local BDSM community - they understand the need for discretion and can help. Find a local group who holds regular munches and tell them the situation.
The important thing to remember is that you need people who can be there for you if things go sour. And I get the impression they might - so get prepared. And be strong. You are only a slave as long as *you* want to be. Rebuff any attempts to bully you. He only has as much power as you give him. If you live with him - move out. If you don’t and he has a key to your house - change the locks.
Don’t see him again. You don’t need to see him anymore, just call him or message him. Tell him that you do not enjoy his humiliation games and will not longer play with him. Do not go back to him. He lost his chance when he escalated the situation. Be sure to have people who love and support you around you when you call it off. It may require you “coming out” to some people about what you’ve been doing - but you will need to do this.
Everyone else reading this - it is *always* important to be careful when meeting Masters. There are a lot of abusive bullies out there and you have to shut that shit down as quickly as possible. But don’t do it alone. Someone always needs to know who you are seeing and where you are going. Bullies like this can become very unpredictable. Protect yourselves at all times.
Anonymous said: Hello Sir, if I snapchat you, what do you prefer is the first pic I send to introduce myself? Also, do you screenshot snaps from your submissives?
Best to send me a pic of you kneeling in your underwear first, boy.
I do occasionally screenshot snaps. Nothing get put up online. If you don’t want it screenshot just send a preliminary snapchat just stating you don’t want any screenshots taken.
Anonymous said: Has another master ever tried to steal one of your slaves or convince him to leave you?
No. But then I don’t tend to keep a lot of actual slaves. Most of the guys i have are just guys who message me online for some play. Online servitude has a kind of unspoken understanding that it’s a session at a time kind of thing.
Anonymous said: My master bought me tank tops and muscle tees to show off my upper body more. I thanked him with a good blowjob and he called me a whore and told our neighbor I beg him for sex.. It's not true and I cannot face my neighbor now!!! What do you suggest?
Laugh it off with your neighbour if you can.
In regards to your master, I think you need to ask yourself if he is discreet enough to continue playing with. If you didn’t like what he said to your neighbour, tell him. Get him to sit down in a non-master/slave situation and have an honest discussion about your BDSM relationship.
If he won’t listen or expects you to just do what he says, then he’s not someone you should be continuing to play with.
Remember - all master/slave relationships are fantasy play. Even TPE and 24/7 ones. Legally the slave can leave any time because he is only a slave as long as he chooses to be.
If your master cannot respect that reality and shows no consideration to the impact his actions are having on your non-BDSM life, then he needs to wise up or get out of the game.
Anonymous said: Hello Sir. I am bisexual and I have been with a Master for two months now. Everything is going great and we both love the experience. However recently my Master has thrown away all my boxers and socks and replaced them with three full drawers of pink jockstraps, thongs with garter belts and stockings. I am to only wear this type of underwear and send a picture to my Master while outside to prove I'm wearing either the jockstrap or thong with stockings. Is this normal part of training?
No boy, it is not normal training It will be something unique to your Master and what he likes to do as a form of humiliation/control. If you’re not really into sissification - and I, for one am not - I would recommend discussing it with your Master.
Remember, your submission to him needs to be something you enjoy too. If he can’t respect that, then stop playing. Some Masters just don’t realise when they go too far if the sub is not communicating with them.
Talk it out with him. You should take time out to talk outside of the Dom/sub situation to ensure that you both know the boundaries of your play.
Anonymous said: I'm straight with a girlfriend but I want to be a strong older master's sissy!! How do I do this?? Or how do I find the right master? I can deal with my girlfriend later...
I always recommend not rushing into things. Explore and learn about BDSM play. Make sure you are ready before you contact a Master. Then go looking for one on a community site like Fetlife.com.
Make sure that you meet in public first and be sure that you are ready for the real thing before you do anything. Play with online servitude and take your time. In fantasy it is fine to dive into the deep end. But in real life I always recommend taking your time and looking after your safety and mental health.